This morning finds us over 8500 miles from the office, watching the sun rise over the Timor Sea off the Northern Coast of Australia. We are on our travels again, this time in celebration of 40 years of marriage. A ruby wedding anniversary! It is a little unsettling as my memories of ruby wedding celebrations centre around old couples, St. Gregory’s Social Club (famous as the club used for Peter Kaye’s Phoenix Nights) and finger buffets.
It seems apt to reflect on our married life so far, our journey, on a journey. A cruise, especially one like this one which will cover thousands of miles, is the perfect metaphor for our own personal journeys. They say travel broadens the mind. By definition – “It emphasises the idea that seeing and experiencing new places and ways of life enriches one’s perspective, helping intellectual and emotional growth”. Travel on a six star cruise ship certainly broadens the girth.
The only constant ….. is change.
Anyone who has travelled on the oceans and seas can tell you the sea is always there, it is constant, but it never remains the same. At times it looks almost oily and flat, reflecting the dark end of the spectrum, appearing charcoal black. Then again in shallower waters the sand beneath reflects a beautiful turquoise hue. However the real elements of change are the tidal flow and wind direction. At times working with the ship in the direction it is heading, allowing for a smooth passage. At others working against the ship making for a “sporty” period, which can last for hours or even days. Our life’s journeys’ also inevitably pass through calm and stormy periods.
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